Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Escape to the Farm?


(Q)

I am seriously considering selling everything and moving to TN to start a farm. Most everyone thinks that is crazy, except my wife of course. When you left everything to have a life on the road how hard was it for you to just walk away and start something completely new and unknown? Would you have any advice for someone who is wanting to do the same kind of thing. I have always looked up to you and was very envious of you for living your dream for real and not letting it just sit on a shelf.

(A)

I like the way your thinking. But would like more details. Keep in mind when we hit the road there was just the 2 of us (no kids) and for a year, we were on the road. Not just one move to a new place. We listened to friend’s ideas prayed & felt good about what we were doing. The adventure you remember was in fact our second, the first was moving to San Diego. I think that was a lot more stressful than hitting the road. We went from a owning a 10 room house with income apartment in Thunder Bay down to 2 suitcases 4 small airline boxes. With no job & and $14K in our pocket started again.


But a farm is always a good place for children to learn life lessons. Don’t be deceived that the drug & moral issues go away they don't. They might even be greater in a small town/country. Ultimately it’s how you run your house that will give the children best chance.

What is there for work? What is there for the church, seminary, temple, etc. You need to be able to make a living not counting on the farm for anything (to be a little safer). The farm can be a money pit, maintenance, equipment, & just your own learning curve can take time & cash.

There is always risk and reward in these endeavors. Your attitudes will determine your reward. The greatest advice I could give is that you, your wife, and the Lord must be unified in this decision. Oh, there is no right or wrong, as long as the thee of you agree.

Please keep me posted and more details please.

David

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